I need to vent or I'm going to just stew on this. K is whining about how lonely he is, how hard it was to watch his son fly away. Not to me, but to his past online flings. I am sure he is feeling alone. But maybe he should have thought about the consequences of lying to me constantly and avoiding contact with his son by sleeping all day. I don't understand how he can expect pity when he did this to himself. When he did this to US. I stuck it out, miserable as I was. I tried. I asked him over and over again to get therapy, tried to work it out, made countless compromises. I am relieved it's over finally. It just irks me to no end that he expects sympathy for being the wronged party. The least he could do was suck it up and be a man. Learn from his mistakes instead of trying to make me out to be the bad guy. Or maybe spend some of the time he is whining about how lonely he is to instead ask how his son is doing. Which he has done once since he moved out three weeks ago. I've had to be the one to give him news about Parker. He even missed his doctor's appointment. Honestly, we are better off without him. And I suppose it's a lot easier to pretend you are a good parent when you aren't right there, dealing with the day-to-day. Just sending money (which I hope he manages to do on time and on schedule) is not being a parent. And asking my best friend who opened her home to us to spy on me because K is worried about his son in my care is despicable.